Today was relatively a very relax day and yeah sometimes when u have nothing to do , you tend to think of all the nonsense. Even if it has nothing to with you. So yeah, some issues of my mind that has nothing to do with me crept up in my mind and how i fought off such thoughts. Hard but i had to. No point worrying bout other peoples Life.
Try giving this thought.. in a relationship, do u have high expectations in your partner? Are they reasonable? or just ridiculously high? low? haha.. but yeah i was just thinking bout expectations and how to not confuse it with responsibility. What i mean is, in a relationship, you are supposed to share with each other your thoughts because that is the purpose of a relationship - to be able to talk. And never confuse or be pressured to want to tell things because you feel that your partner expects u to share with him or her. Cause if it is obliging to tell your partner because he or she expects it, then i guess something is wrong. I'm not even sure what i am writing about.haha
To love someone means: To accept them the way they are. To trust them and allow them to have a say in what you do. To allow them to correct you when you are wrong even though u don't see it. To be patient even though your fuse is only that long. To be good listener and to not have an opinionated answers. To listen to them without relating your own situation. To plan about the future plans and to talk about little little things that may sound a bit toooo 'cute'. To think of the next opportunity to surprise the person. To ensure that your partner feels loved. Last but not least is to share the gospel with them...
and the list goes on and on....
Current song: Eternal Salvation by CCC
Tonight will be a good night studying and doing the QT.
Yours truly,
Amos Ignatius Susau
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